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Bareback sex (unsafe sex - sex without condoms) is still a big taboo and the word itself is avoided at all costs in most conversations because it carries a lot of prejudice and stigma from the society, but especially in the gay community that is very judgmental and full of hypocrisy. The aim of www.barebackstation.xxx or our Tumblr, Facebook, Blogger, Twitter and Youtube pages is not to promote HIV-AIDS despite its controversial name.
The aim of bareback station is to raise awareness of a reality that happens all around the world, but people still don’t feel comfortable or ‘safe’ to discuss their status without being judged, feeling labeled or tagged by others. This doesn’t really happen among the straight community where they can openly say they do NOT use condoms, or they can’t adapt to it, some just hate condoms, others use the birth control pills, or have allergies to latex etc. (Sex is very important and essential to keep any human being balanced and ‘functional’ and is considered a basic human need, just like sleeping and eating. Bareback sex is even a bigger reality nowadays especially with the newest advances of the medicine and new medications available in some developed countries to the population. Bareback sex is not the simple fact of ‘not using condoms for the sake of it’ or being, crazy, stupid, dirty or that you are an evil and a bad person aiming to cause harm to others. We also know that we were not genetically designed to wear anything around the genital area for sex - we were genetically designed to ‘save’ the species and to pass our D.N.A on… Many species of animals die while reproducing, they sacrifice themselves in order to breed and succeed in passing their genetic code. We humans, we are just the same! Some men were never able to wear a condom in their lives.. If wearing a condom was an easy fact the death rate in countries where the information is available would be much lower than the reality. Many people will not adapt to ‘condoms’ and swim against the current. Men will do it anyway. We know that luckily in many developing countries today HIV is only a chronic illness - unlike what’s going in on in Africa and some other countries around the world where the horror of AIDS is still a very sad reality. The lifespan of a HIV positive person who takes their treatment seriously today is the same than any other person who is HIV negative. We also know that the number of new cases of HIV among the gay population is decreasing… and is higher today among the straight community. And this is probably due the fact that most HIV+ gay men are more conscious and taking their treatment and keeping their viral load undetectable… Making harder to pass the HIV virus that leads to AIDS. but as we know.. nothing is impossible. the risk is still there. We want people to let the prejudice, their judgments and hypocrisy in the past and as an adult be more responsible for your own actions. We want you to have a place (POZ or NEG) men who feel the same to join us. This is a place where people are willing to feel less judged, less segregated and to have an opportunity to talk openly about their options, statuses when they are going to have sex or not. It’s not unknown to many of us that some men live a life of ‘reclusion and loneliness’ where the only time they can socialise is with people with the same condition just to have sex and the heavy use of drugs is very present. There’s nothing sexy on HIV/AIDS but also there’s nothing sexy in being ignorant and staying blind to a reality that happens all the time all over the world. We had enough of seeing those who are POZ or NEG to live segregated, to feel separated and to be condemned to a lonely life away from the society suffering abuse and discrimination by other people who practise the same or others who cant simply understand why and wish they could disappear ‘forever’. This is the reality and it won’t go away! And if you do have a problem in understanding this fact of life, don’t judge what you don’t understand and have a good life… But your hate will not be tolerated and welcomed here and if you go too far acting with hateful words or threats we might take legal action against you. We are lucky to live where we are and have access to all information needed for this.. So let’s make use of it and share it! And fight the ignorance and not those who are different from you - No one here is forcing you to have unprotected sex. this is a private and personal matter and it is for the person or people involved to discuss that. not you!
Once again we are not promoting HIV or AIDS; Neither any of the STD transmitted easily by the non use of condoms. But we will promote respect and tolerance and help those who want to share and have their rights to have their voices heard to express how they feel, independently of being HIV POZ or HIV NEG.
Bareback Station website will NOT be featured in any countries where GAY rights / human rights are not respected and any of those countries where HIV-AIDS is still a death sentence. Hopefully we will be able to do our part and help children or families that were devastated by probably the worse disease of the century.
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